Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
ISBN: 814408354
EAN: N/A
EAN: N/A
Year: 2002
Pages: 134
Pages: 134
- Table of Contents
- BackCover
- Face It - Recognizing and Conquering the Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict at Work
- Preface
- Introduction
- The Patterns
- Insecurity
- Coaching vs. Therapy
- Business Pressures
- From Fear to Freedom
- Part I: The People in Your Neighborhood
- Chapter 1: The Worrier
- Why Worry?
- Putting a Stop to Worry
- Developing Practical Tools
- Embracing the Fear
- Enhancing Self-Esteem
- If You Work with a Worrier
- Chapter 2: The Controller
- How Controllers Behave
- The Problems Controllers Create
- What s Behind Controlling?
- Getting Control of Control
- If You Work with a Controller
- Chapter 3: The Fake
- Bad Faith
- The Truth Is, I May Not Measure Up
- I Don t Deserve the Respect I Get
- I Am Not of Value
- The Active Deceiver
- Partial Disclosure
- Owning the Truth
- Accepting Responsibility and Self-Forgiveness
- The Bottom Line
- The Basic Formula
- If You Work with a Fake
- Chapter 4: The Attention-Seeker
- The Behaviors
- The Problem
- The Fix
- If You Work with Attention-Seekers
- Chapter 5: The Victim
- Who Is the Victim?
- Lies We Tell Ourselves
- Owning Blame
- The Victim Response
- Victims Generalize
- But It s True
- Victim Thinking
- Agency
- Becoming More Agent-Like
- Personalization and Self-Forgiveness
- If You Work with a Victim
- Chapter 6: The Prisoner
- Prisoners of Anxiety
- It s Often About Childhood
- It s Not Always About Childhood
- Getting Out of Jail
- Getting Out - and Staying Out
- If You Work with a Prisoner
- Part II: Hell Is Not Just Other People
- Chapter 7: The Transcendence Model
- The Transcendence Model
- Love, Death, and Robots
- Rising Above
- First Principles
- A Better Way
- Going Meta
- Chapter 8: Here Comes the Judge
- Making Judgments
- Who Is the Judge?
- The Experience of Self
- Lighten Up
- Where Self Comes From
- Ego
- Self as an Illusion
- The Challenge
- In Summary
- Chapter 9: Our Shaky Foundations
- Meaning
- The Ultimate Paradox
- Nothingness
- Chapter 10: How We Judge
- Meta-Level Judgments
- Communication Sins
- The Unspoken Gap Analysis
- The Risks of Judging
- Where Ego Steps In
- Perceiving Angst
- Avoiding Angst
- We re All Fakes
- Part III: Moving from Fear to Freedom
- Chapter 11: What s Your Operating Strategy?
- Detecting Your Operating Strategy
- Defining Your Operating Strategy
- Transcending Your Operating Strategy
- Chapter 12: A Case of Disidentification
- Emotions
- Emotions Are Good
- We Become Our Feelings
- Isolating Your Feelings
- Managing Your Feelings
- Owning Your Feelings
- Embracing Your Feelings
- Chapter 13: There Goes the Judge
- Managing the Judge
- The Listening Game
- Exiling the Judge
- Gaining Proximity
- Chapter 14: A Way of Being
- Authenticity
- Will
- Will in Action
- Commitment
- Chapter 15: A Better Way
- Full-Exposure Communication
- Flow
- Meditation
- Joyful Egolessness
- Bibliography
- Index
- Index_B-C
- Index_D
- Index_E
- Index_F
- Index_G-H
- Index_I-J
- Index_L-M
- Index_N-P
- Index_R-S
- Index_T
- Index_U-V
- Index_W
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
ISBN: 814408354
EAN: N/A
EAN: N/A
Year: 2002
Pages: 134
Pages: 134