Avoiding Angst


Those who avoid their angst by looking awaycontrollers, attention-seekers , and fakes are also subscribing to the existence of ghosts. All constructs of meta-thoughts are useful entities because they give us tools to survive. But when we become driven by them, lost in them, we let them take us too far.

  • Controllers make their judgments and then derive fuel from them to get control. They get lost in their effort to get their own way, motivated by a self-produced angst.

  • Attention-seekers meta-level thoughts create out of the blue a sense of emptiness, judge that this emptiness is just not okay, and look away while they try to fill it with other peoples sense of who they are.

  • Fakes , people who feel a dissonance between what they know about themselves and how they behave, judge themselves very unfavorably while they continue to sustain the falsehood.




Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
ISBN: 814408354
EAN: N/A
Year: 2002
Pages: 134

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