decoding (active listening), 149151
defining business need (phase 1), 115116
delegative leadership style, 214, 221222
depersonalization
of assessment data, 102105
in business relationships, 105106
of conflict, 11, 88
in receiving feedback, 4849
destructive conflict
characteristics of, 4
transformation of, 58
directive leadership style, 214216
"dirty dozen " roadblocks , 143
disengagement, e-mail and, 170172
Doumani, John, 85
on attending behavior, 146, 147
on conflict-management skills, 166
and conflict protocols, 4647
on confronting conflict, 2526
on depersonalization, 28, 48
feedback sought/accepted by, 211
as a leader, 228230
on problem with employee, 229230
responsibilities delegated by, 213
as role model, 205206
on well-managed conflict, 206
dysfunctional teams, high-performance teams vs., 70