(Ricky recognizes the new issue and decides to discuss it. Obviously, Elena feels she s being asked to do more than he is doing, and he wants to explore this point.)
Ricky: You re the one who had to make all the accommodations when we first moved here. I didn t realize that was an issue for you. How about if we talk about that and then return to the other topic?
Elena: I expected you to give up some of your ambitions too. It s been disappointing that you could just let me do all the giving while you do all the taking.