Index_P

P

Pack, breaking from, 235 “237

Pain, 68 “69, 259

long- term , 128

Paraphrase, 191, 192 “193

Parenting, 20, 37 “38, 51, 72, 75 “76, 83 “84, 105, 132. See also Marriage ; Teenagers

arbitrary accountability in, 176

deciding on, 10

learning, 83 “84

lying and, 172, 182 “183

making things easy and, 151 “153, 219, 255

nagging and, 247 “248

praise and, 263, 264 “265

step-parenting and, 139 “142

tattletales and, 240

use of we in, 203

weak, 242 “243

Path , sharing, 100

Path to Action model, 58, 101, 186, 190 “194, 197

Patronization, avoiding, 189 “190

Patterns

changing lifelong , 250 “252

in CPR, 32 “33, 36, 53 “54

Performance gaps. See Gaps

Perks, 124 “125

Permission, asking, 97, 167

Peterson, Donald, 265, 266

Physical features, 164 “165

Plans. See also Follow up

agreeing on, 110, 214 “215, 219, 226

making, 139

short-term action v., 251 “252

WWWF/complete, 204 “212

Pleasure, 68 “69, 259

Plywood mill. See Mill, plywood

Political analyst, 145 “146

Posthole, going, 185 “186

Power

avoiding use of, 120 “121

empathy v., 233

failure of, 137 “139

Praise, 68, 70 “71, 260

counterintuitive, 263 “268

for employees , 262 “268

in marriage, 265 “266

parenting and, 263, 264 “265

private, 267

in problem-solving, 262

public, 267

recognition v., 268

for success, 262 “268

Pressure, 68, 70 “71, 260

backing off under, 137

Prime, 191, 193 “194

Priorities, 35 “36, 260, 261

differing, 133 “134

setting, 10

Privacy, 97 “98

praise and, 267

public discussion v., 247

Problems

ambiguous, 39 “40

dealing with wrong, 27 “31

emergent, 173 “196, 197

employees with many, 248 “250

handling, 3 “4

praise in solving, 262

predictable, 203 “204

relationships based on, 248 “250

repeated, 247 “248, 254

root v. easy, 253

safety, 105

school, 27 “29, 36

Process, results v., 267

Promises, broken, 3, 4, 5, 85 “88, 184, 254, 270

because something came up, 176 “180, 197

If question and, 39

motivation and, 116

on raises, 26

by teenagers, 26 “27, 32, 35, 202

Public discussion

praise as, 267

private v., 247

Public works facility, 17

Pump, priming , 167

Purpose, Mutual, 92 “93, 95 “97, 175, 223