victims, 7590
agency approach for, 8386
angst perception by, 152153
deflection of responsibility by, 7980
ego in, 127128
embracing of feelings by, 187
emotions in patterns of, 172
generalization behaviors of, 8081
identifying, 7677
insecurities/fears of, 135
meta-level thinking by, 119, 144, 160
normalizing behavior of, 77
owning of blame by, 7879
partial disclosure by, 216
personalization in, 8688
proximity and choices of, 201
and realistic vs. victim-thinking by, 8182
reasons for behavior of, 83
self-esteem of, 7879
self- forgiveness in, 8889
working with, 8990