illusion, self as, 129132, 141
insecurity, 23, 110112, see also fear-
judgment(s), 121122, 144155
about fakery, 60
angst as result of, 152153
based on avoiding angst, 153
controlling, 195199
emotions as consequence of, 173
factual, 145
listening without, 192195
made by fakes , 153155
managing, 188102
meta-level , 151152
and need for security, 115
notion of self in making, 122123
and proximity to problem, 199202
risks of making, 149151
and sense of self, 128129
and ˜˜sins in communication, 146148
triggers of, 164
unspoken gap analysis in, 148
value, 145147
of victims of themselves , 86